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Great Society’s “New Frontier”'s avatar

You had me at “perception is a tricky mirror”😏

You truly did; despite the smirk.

We really do subconsciously superimpose our beliefs on others’ (understanding of a predicament) when we alter our behavior for the benefit of others.

That’s what “put yourself in my shoes” means, right?

Problem is…

Example:

👥(a loving couple) couldn’t possibly want me (single lady) to put myself in their predicament at this moment, because I would flirt with every dude giving me the 😉 eye in hopes that they’ll join me at the ball (or whatever).

👥 want me to live the life that they’ve lived and THEN help 👥 make the best choice. 👥 doesn’t want me to have their 9yo mowing my lawn while I pick up a hottie giving me 😉 for “the ball”.

People don’t really want folks to put themselves in their shoes at that moment; they want a buddy who has gone through experiences as they have and THEN (with a 😐) tell them that Black people don’t still face discrimination in 2025 despite the #EmancipationProclamation being in effect since 1864.

This land wasn’t confiscated from the natives for people like me. 👩🏾‍🦱

Sally's avatar

I wrote " inside the cave" which also tackles perception. Beautiful writing

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